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Now online at GayOKC.com Sat, Jan 24, 2004

OFEC ACTION ALERT
Please contact the Leadership of the Oklahoma House of Representatives to urge them to STOP the passage of anti-GLBT legislation that has just been introduced. It is important that you identify the bill number and short title when you contact each legislator's office.

Larry Adair, Speaker
Phone: 405-557-7394
Fax: 405-557-7445
email:
adairla@lsb.state.ok.us

Danny Hilliard, Speaker Pro Tempore
Phone: 405-557-7412
Fax: 405-962-7648
email:
hilliardda@lsb.state.ok.us

Jari Askins, Speaker-elect
Phone: 405-557-7327
Fax: 580-522-3969
email:
askinsja@lsb.state.ok.us

Call or Write Today!!! Ask them to stop these measures that discriminate against GLBT Oklahomans and their families.

HB 2207 - Graves - Same gender marriage recognition
HJR 1045 - Graves - Constitutional amendment - same gender relationships
HR 1027 - Balkman-Cargill - Disapproval of US Supreme Court ruling invalidating state sodomy laws

For more information and to track the bills progress go to
www.oglpc.org/actioncenter.htm

WHAT'S IN STORE FOR 2004?
Speakers: Jim Roth, Mark Henricksen, Rodney Johnson, Karen Weldin, Terry Gatewood, Heidi Ruster, Jean Ann Van Krevelen, Paul Thompson, Angela Flynt, John Gibbons, Keith Smith, Rhonda Rudd, Chris Powell, Jim Craig, Paula Sophia, Jeni Markham Clewell, Matt McNeil, Joe Quigley, Chris Balderas, Chris Munoz, Traci Hill, Richard Ogden, Margaret Cox, David Templeton, Michelle Sigler. Plus representatives of the Democratic Presidential candidates!
Will this be a year of evolution or revolution? Will 2004 in OKC be more or less historic than 2003? Find out when GayOKC.com presents The State of Our Community 2004, Monday, January 26, 6:30PM at Epworth United Methodist Church! Reception begins at 5:30. Meet the people who made the news happen in OKC's GLBT Community in 2003, find out what they think and what they're doing in 2004! What are the issues our community is dealing with & what are the resources we have available to us? Our community is bigger than you think it is!
(The State of Our Community 2004 is being made possible by donations from the
Cimarron Alliance Foundation, Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, and Gourmet Cakes.)

HATE CRIMES MEETING
The
Cimarron Alliance Foundation is holding a town hall meeting on Hate Crimes on Sunday, January 25th at 6PM at the Copa, located in the Habana Inn, 2200 NW 39th Expressway. Organizers will discuss hate crimes directed against the GLBT Community in Oklahoma, including the case of Shawn McDaniel, who was attacked in Norman on October 16, 2003. CAF has agreed to help McDaniel pursue a civil case against his attackers and will be accepting donations to fund the case. The Copa has pledged that if 100 people show up for the meeting, they will donate $1.00 of every beer sale. Click here for the Gayly Oklahoman's article on the meeting

COPA TURNABOUT FOR THE CENTER
Wed, Jan 28
Open at 9PM, show at 10:30PM
Hosted by Kitty & Shemoane
All proceeds benefit The Center

LETTER TO THE EDITOR
When will I not be an American any longer?
How ironic that religion is so often used as a battering ram against human rights. But the dream of equality persists precisely because it's built on a theological foundation. It's sacred as well as secular. And in the end, hopefully, this root value will be our salvation. Concerning the court case in Mass. I noticed immediately that the religious Reich were all using the phrase "Everyone has an equal right to marry. No matter if they are gay or not. Any man can marry any woman." This was a part of all of the talk shows. The religious Reich had already prepared the talking points. What this made me understand, like a light that had been flipped on, occurred when I was listening to Elizabeth Birch that same evening and it was this.... MARRIAGE WILL NOT CHANGE. MARRIAGE IS A COVENANT INVOLVING THE CHURCH. HOMOSEXUALS WILL CONTINUE TO BE MARRIED IN THE CHURCH OF THEIR CHOICE. WHEN "THEY" ATTEMPT TO SPEAK ON THE ISSUE ABOUT HOW IT WILL DESTROY THE INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE, OUR RESPONSE SHOULD BE "WE HAVE THE RIGHT TO FREEDOM OF RELIGION, WE CAN MARRY WITHIN OUR CHURCH ALREADY. YOU HAVE NO RIGHT OR POWER TO MAKE MY CHURCH CONFORM TO YOURS" WE ALSO HAVE THE FREEDOM FROM RELIGION SO WE SHOULD BE FREE TO MARRY WITHOUT THE CHURCH. All of these religious fundamentalists don't seem to understand what they themselves are saying. Fundamentalists think that a civil arrangement will affect their religious covenant. Shouldn't fundamentalist worry more about the religions that allow same gender marriage?
When will the "light" turn on for the fundamentalist? When fundamentalist demand their religious superstitions have the control of the American constitution, our constitution will fight back. If fundamentalist get to push their
agenda then we all will benefit. The constitution will win. All of us must be recognized as equal. Each time amendments or any laws that are made to exclude a single person from enjoying the promise made by our founders and the guarantee of the constitution, the efforts to destroy lives has failed. I am not a leftist. I am a liberal. I believe liberals are the blessed. Liberals most closely follow the teaching of Jesus. The people that are on the far left and the far right are the least American of all of our citizens. Those who want to pervert the constitution to their religious or anti-religious philosophy are the traitors to all of us. The debate should be allowed. But not at the expense of all Americans that believe in the vision of a free people that our founders hoped for.
I am completely torn on the issue of the fundamentalist taking control of our America. Is that what will have to happen to make the American people understand what it is like to live in a theocracy? A place where peoples lives are controlled by religious superstitions? Where the leaders talk to their god and god answers? (I find it so odd that God spoke so seldom to his son, yet there are people alive today that have a conversation with him every day. Where are all of the new chapters in the Bible? God's new words should be added to the book!)
Must the United States be place where their god tells them what to do other people? A place where their god is better than your god? Read the book "A Handmaid's Tail." It is a fiction book that details what appears to be going on in our America today. A book that details what happens as soon as it is decided that America is a nation that is controlled by religious superstition (Protestant fundamentalism). Is this what will have to happen?
They came and took my neighbor away and I said nothing…………….it might be me next…………
Edward Kromer
Oklahoma City

ODP PRESIDENTIAL RALLY
CONFIRMED TO ATTEND:
U.S. Senator Joe Lieberman and Congressman Dennis Kucinich
Governor Howard Dean and General Wesley Clark are very close to committing!
Chairman Jay Parmley
Oklahoma Democratic Party State Central Committee
and
Oklahoma County Chair Kitti Asberry
Oklahoma County Democratic Party Central Committee
Invite You To
“COUNTDOWN WITH THE CAMPAIGNS”
A 2004 Oklahoma Presidential Primary Rally
Wednesday, January 28, 2004
Doors open 4:45 p.m.
Rally begins at 5:30 p.m.
Oklahoma State Fairgrounds Arena
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
$35 per event ticket – food included!
Don’t miss this historic Presidential Primary Rally.
Get your ticket today by sending payment to
4100 N. Lincoln Blvd.
Oklahoma City, OK 73105
You may also purchase your tickets online.
www.okdemocrats.org

GOP PRECINCT MEETINGS
Date: Tuesday, January 27, 2004
Time: 7:00 p.m.
Please contact local county organizations for locations
State Committee Directory
This is the first step in the grassroots of the Republican party.

SISSY UPDATE FROM ROBERT MATSON
Get stuck with us!! at
www.tarsplace.com!!!
Growing & Learning with Sissy Newest Webisode
It's late and the Christmas Pageant opens tomorrow but Sissy is holding up production so he can have a little word with God about why he was made different. Elizabeth Ann Brooks, stars as the girl playing Mary, who gives Sissy some spiritual help and Ellen Webster plays the Director, who is about to have a nervous breakdown, with David Mays as Sissy. It's a belated Christmas special of Growing & Learning with Sissy's latest episode titled, "God".
http://www.tarsplace.com/Webisode_Four.htm
Check out the latest theatre openings in and around Oklahoma City.
An extra art tidbit. Ernesto Sanchez & Lin Hartgrove-Sanchez, two big supporters of the theatre, art and GLBT community have an art showing at The Untitled Gallery. I went to the opening and their work is amazing and eye-catching. Check it out.
http://www.tarsplace.com/index.html
Let us know what you think. Please feel free to send this e-mail to your friends and ask them to join our growing list.
Enjoy,
Robert & Terry
tarsplace@cox.net
TaRsPlace Motto: Providing Computer Service and Website Development with "Terry's Computer Service" and producing original "Live Theatre" entertainment for Oklahoma City's Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered community.

NW CLASSEN UPDATE
Joe Quigley questions why teachers are allowed to put up Martin Luther King displays but not Gay History Month displays at NW Classen, and disputes an interview with Dr Miller that was recently posted on
Hard News Online.
www.gayokc.com/quigley011604.htm

OFEC UPDATE
The Oklahoma City town hall meeting to bring back information from the state-wide summit in Stroud took place at the Church of the Open Arms Thursday, January 15th. Approximately 50 activists were on hand to hear what coalition organizers were able to achieve last Saturday. Information on the new Coalition's personnel and structure are on the new website which just went online at
www.ofec.org. Meeting facilitators Karen Weldin, Keith Smith, Terry Gatewood and Mark Bonney laid out the situation regarding the anti-GLBT resolutions and amendments being proposed and the strategy the Coalition has developed for opposing them. They encourage organizations, faith groups and individuals to join the Coalition. In addition, they are circulating a Freedom To Marry petition which they encourage people to sign and circulate.
Another town hall meeting will take place in Tulsa on Jan 20. GLAAD will present media training at the Church of the Open Arms on Saturday, Jan 17. HRC will be offering training at the end of this month. Activists were also encouraged to attend the League of Women Voters seminar being offered at the State Capitol on Wed, Jan 21. Keith Smith, himself a professional lobbyist, endorsed it as the best possible training anyone could undergo for lobbying. Further information should be available at
www.ofec.org, or contact Karen Weldin at karen@soulforce.org or Rodney Johnson at politick@red-river.us.

OKLAHOMA GLBT LEADERS ENDORSE DEAN
Over 100 Oklahoma Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Leaders have endorsed Governor Howard Dean, candidate for the Democratic Party's nomination for President of the United States.
"Governor Dean has been the only candidate to back up his speech with action, by signing Vermont's civil union law - and he stood with us through the political fallout that came with it, " says Keith Smith, a National Board Member of the Stonewall Democrats.
Dean's GLBT supporters plan to reach out to the gay community throughout the next month, since that community has been a cornerstone of Dean's campaign since the early days.
Volunteers will be actively recruiting and identifying voters for a massive "Get Out The Vote" push within the GLBT community.
The following GLBT leaders in Oklahoma have publicly endorsed Governor Dean:
Marty Newman, John Gibbons, Dr. Shirley Hunter, Keith Smith, Lee Burrus, Rhonda Rudd, Rodney Johnson, G.G. George, Philippe Beaudette, Joe Quigley, James Nimmo, Rex Ball, Nick Post, Tony Foss, Steven Edwards, Paul Bashline, TJ McKinsey, Edward Kromer, Bob Lemon, Chrys Lemon, Carmen Coronado, Karen Parsons, Pam Paul, Diane Deason, Corky Green, David Nickell, Karen Weldin, Clyde Pierce, Dorothy Alexander, Paul Barby, Jayshree Naidu, Mark Henricksen, Wanda Chapman, Dee Corley, Sonja Martinez, Preston White, David Davis, Sherry Maxwell, Kathy McKean, Susann Bain, Eotree Palmer, Stan Simpson, Jon Harle, Tim Gillean, Ken Draper, Floyd Martin, David Paddock, Phillip Cyr, Duane Moore, Joe Freeman, Will Decker, Sarah Scanlon, Carmen Coronado, Dena Link, Kent Doss, Terry Dennison, Rick Chappell, Rex Mendenhall, Jon Tipton, Jason Anderson, Toby Vanrakan, Walter Oaks, Dallas Williams, K. Brad Douglas, Julian Vasek, Gabe Coppinger, Christian Pellesehi, Steve Callahan, Buzz Anderson, David L Clark, Craig Travis, Jason Krottinger, Douglas Redus, Matthew Opalka, Tamara Knight, Pam Lowery, Gayla Barker, Lee Morgan, Robert Winders, Angelo Rodriguez Jr., Raven Delray, Steven Lofton, Felicia Fontaine, Phil Burke, Jess Brent Barnes, Robert R. Nixon, Rob Morrison, Martin Berry, Ed Walker, Gary Davis, Pearl Pearson, Glenn Ladd, Lewis Cleveland, Jesse McGee, Jr., Ben J. Williams, Patrick Mahoney, Jeffrey Askins, Jacob S. Nielsen, Monty Jacobs, Al McAffrey, JT Estrada, James K Richardson, Jeff Thompson.

2003: THE YEAR IN REVIEW NOW ONLINE!
It's all here, taken from the front page of GayOKC.com! From Jim Roth's swearing-in to the Oklahoma campaigns of the Democratic presidential candidates and the GLBT activists who are making them happen, and all the events that made 2003 a historic year in our community and hold enormous promise and potential for good and ill in 2004: including the City Council's removal of all restrictions on the banner program, GLBT impact on the City Council races, The Laramie Project, hate crimes bills, the PNI "Peace Train", PFLAG OKC, the Oklahoma Republican Party platform, Rick Santorum, Stonewall Democrats, Soulforce in Oklahoma at the Oklahoma Methodists conference, Rev. Gene Robinson, Howard Dean, Lawrence v Texas, Fred Phelps pickets Billy Graham, the Cathedral of Hope disaffiliating from MCC, the Democratic presidential forum in Stillwater, reorganization of the Cimarron Alliance Group, the Norman Transcript printing a same-gender union announcement, OKC Public Schools superintendent Bob Moore's letter to Joe Quigley stating in writing that it is against district policy to discriminate against GLBT students, the first ever GLBT History Month display at NW classen High School, Kirk Humphrey's resignation as mayor so he can run for the Senate, the "Love Won Out" conference, the Massachusetts Supreme Court decision regarding Gay marriage and the response from Oklahoma legislators, Brad Carson's support for the Federal Marriage Amendment and the Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats' decision not to support his campaign for re-election, Jacqueline Gatewood's "Diversity House" project and the announcement of a statewide coalition of GLBT organizations in Oklahoma!
Part One: January - June
Part Two: July - September
Part Three: October - December

2002 IN REVIEW STILL ONLINE!
www.gayokc.com/yearinreview2002.htm

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News

Cathedral of Hope co-pastor West resigns - Arizona Anti-Gay Amendment Declared 'Dead' - Utah Bill To Ban Gay Marriage Withdrawn - Members of "ex-gay" group argue for federal funding - Ohio businesses troubled by "super DOMA" - Mautner Project launches health program for African-American lesbians - Democrats Vow to Battle Bush on Social Issues - South Carolina's Advice to Kerry: Don't Forget Us - Clark Vows Progress on Gay Issues - Virginia senator pulls support for benefits bill - Pittsburgh benefits battle spotlights struggle of same-sex couples - Arguments heard in Catholic suit over DP benefits - Gay rights back on agenda in New Mexico - Murder Suspect Linked To 3 Other Gay Slayings - AP flubs Gay custody story - Freedom to Marry Day/Week Resource Kit is now available - Web Journals Get Noticed on the Campaign Trail - 'Dean scream' becomes online hit - 'Gay orgy' raid raises privacy questions in Taiwan - Second Guilty Plea In Gay Slaying - Desperately Seeking Sundance Cool - Here's the Price of Fame: $218.32 - Sex change reported for Jethro Tull keyboardist - Fashion photog Helmut Newton killed in car crash - Rosie O'Donnell at work with Cyndi Lauper on new musical - Legal Battle Over Chat-Room STDs - HIV Cases Reach 20-Year High In Scotland - Study: Genes may trump nurture with intersex kids - Researchers retract key finding in HIV long-term survivors study - Top VaxGen officials to leave company - Mass. woman sues over HIV misdiagnosis - Click here for the latest local, national and world news and editorials - including Today's Headlines from the National GLBT Websites - plus access to headlines from the past seven days - it's all right here on the GayOKC.com News page! News>

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August 27, 2003
Dear Mr. Quigley,
Please know that this district does not discriminate against any student. That includes gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered students.
Sincerely,
Bob Moore, Superintendent,
Oklahoma City
Public Schools

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