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Now online at GayOKC.com Thur, Jan 29, 2004

OFEC ISSUES ACTION ALERT ON SJR 38
Dear OFEC Members and Supporters,
A bill has been filed in the Oklahoma Senate. Please read and take action today!
Karen Weldin
Rodney Johnson
OFEC Co-Chairs
Info@OFEC.org
www.ofec.org
STOP the passage of anti-GLBT legislation that has just been introduced
Senate Republican Floor Leader James A. Williamson, R-Tulsa, introduced legislation, SJR 38, to send a “defense of marriage” constitutional amendment to a vote of the people. Williamson’s constitutional amendment would define marriage as “the union of one man and one woman,” and would prohibit the state from recognizing same-gender marriages performed in other states. The amendment also states, “Neither this Constitution nor any other provision of law shall be construed to require that marital status or the legal incidents thereof be conferred upon unmarried couples or groups.”
Take Action Now! Tell your senator the you will not stand for this type of divisive, mean-spirited law that were designed to single out and marginalize an entire group of Oklahomans for unequal treatment." I ask you to tell your senator we will not marginalize any Oklahoman by voting no on SJR 38.
Take Action!

"MARRIAGE PROTECTION" AMENDMENT INTRODUCED IN OK SENATE
The following press release was issued by senator Williamson's office on Friday, January 23.
Senate Republican Leader Introduces ‘Marriage Protection’ Amendment
Williamson Appeals for Governor Henry’s Leadership, Support on Issue
State Capitol, Oklahoma City – Senate Republican Floor Leader James A. Williamson, R-Tulsa, today introduced legislation, SJR 38, to send a “defense of marriage” constitutional amendment to a vote of the people.
“As President Bush noted in his State of the Union address, the sanctity of marriage is under assault from activist judges in America today,” Williamson said. “Amending our state Constitution is the best way we can ensure traditional marriage is protected here in Oklahoma.”
Williamson’s constitutional amendment would define marriage as “the union of one man and one woman,” and would prohibit the state from recognizing same-gender marriages performed in other states. The amendment also states, “Neither this Constitution nor any other provision of law shall be construed to require that marital status or the legal incidents thereof be conferred upon unmarried couples or groups.”
Williamson said despite recent remarks by Gov. Brad Henry that additional protections for marriage are not needed, Oklahoma is at risk of a court decision like last year’s ruling by the Massachusetts Supreme Court legalizing gay marriage in that state.
“I asked the Senate’s general counsel to review the Massachusetts case to determine if an activist Oklahoma judge could make a similar ruling based on the working of our state Constitution. The answer was, yes, there is a risk that this type of ruling could occur in Oklahoma.
“This is why Oklahoma needs a constitutional amendment to protect traditional marriage. Republicans are appealing to Gov. Henry to change his mind about this important issue and join us in a bipartisan effort to constitutionally protect marriage in Oklahoma,” Williamson stated.
Williamson said he also supports legislation by House Republicans that encourages the U.S. Congress to provide federal constitutional protections for marriage.
“Protecting traditional marriage is one the most important social and moral issues of the day. Encouraging Congress to take action at the federal level is a very important part of protecting traditional marriage in the United States,” he stated.
Rep. Mike O’Neal, R-Enid, is the House co-author of SJR 38.

CLARK VISITS OKC
Wes Clark Brings "True Values Tour" to Oklahoma
TULSA - Gen. Wesley K. Clark will meet with voters in Tulsa and Oklahoma City to seal the deal and get their votes while he discusses his American Values of strong leadership, faith and family. Events are free and open to the public and press.

Thursday, Jan. 29 -- Oklahoma City:
Pancakes & Politics
VFW Hall, 4605 S. Pennsylvania
Doors open: 7:45 a.m.
Event begins: 8:15 a.m.
Press Availability: 9 - 9:15 a.m.

CLARK, JR RETURNS TO OKC
Join Wes Clark, Jr. As he campaigns for his father
Wes Clark Jr. Meet-n-Greet
Friday, January 30th
7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.
Home of Richard Ogden & Mike McLain
612 N.E. 17th Street
3 blocks south of the State Capitol

EDWARDS IN OKC
You are cordially invited to join Senator John Edwards
For his "America Works Best When It Works For Everyone Tour"
Saturday, January 31
Oklahoma City, OK
Edwards For President GOTV Rally
United Association of Plumbers and Pipefitters, Local 344
4335 SW 44
1:30
ALL EVENTS ARE FREE AND OPEN TO THE PUBLIC
For more information call (405) 525-2000

NLA EVENT
Hello Everyone…  NLA-OKC is having their PPF Fundraiser this coming Saturday night January 31st at the Finishline from 9 pm – 2 am.  Randall Kinnear will be our Emcee and we will have several entertainment acts performing during the night.  There will be someone selling tickets for drawings during every entertainment section and of course, jell-o shots will be sold in the Finishline and Copa all night long…
Every penny made will go to the PPF Fund and be divided in half and sent to both the NCSF and the LA&M.  We invite all you other kinky Oklahoma folks out to join NLA-OKC in raising some money for two very worthwhile Lifestyle organizations.
We’ll be there until 2 am so come late if you have to… but please come…
The PPF Fund is an exciting way to support two fantastic organizations dedicated to protecting the past and future of our Community. How can you support this cause?
You can make a donation directly to either organization by snail mail (at the address listed below). Please make your check payable to either Leather Archives & Museum, National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, or send a check for each! You can also make a direct donation to either organization electronically at
http://ppffund.org.
The preferred way to support this event is to attend the MANY PPF events that will be scheduled across North America. The clubs and bars hosting these events will commit to donating a portion of the event proceeds to this cause.
Why should you donate to the LA&M or the NCSF through the PPF Fund, instead of directly?
On Saturday, January 31, 2004, across North America we are asking that everyone involved with a club, munch, bar, etc., get their Community involved by hosting an event at the local Leather/Kink friendly bars on this date. We would like a portion of these proceeds to be donated equally to the LA&M and the NCSF through the PPF Fund. Get involved! Be part of this North America – wide fundraising event!
If you're interested in attending a PPF event, are a bar or nightclub owner who would like to host an event, or a Leather club that would like to organize a PPF night: Then please contact us now! We have a calendar of PPF events, and can tell you what's happening in your area. Or, we can list your PPF Fund event on our calendar.
The first night scheduled for PPF Fund events is January 31, 2004. This inaugural event will benefit both the LA&M and the NCSF. We'll then have events on a quarterly basis, benefiting one and then the other.
These organizations need the support of our community in order to protect our history, as well as our future freedom. If we don't help them, no one will. So please... "Give `till it hurts"
Tammie Nelson, International Ms Leather 2003
John Schmitt, Indiana Leather editor, Midwest Ursine
Beneficiaries:
Leather Archives & Museum,
http://leatherarchives.org
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom,
http://ncsfreedom.org
Thanks so much for your support.  And feel free to crosspost this to other lists as you feel they are appropriate.
In Leather Pride,
~Michelle
NLA-OKC Co-Chair
Tribal Fire Vendor Coordinator
LLC Board Member

OFEC ACTION ALERT
OKLAHOMA FREEDOM AND EQUALITY COALITION
www.ofec.org
Info@ofec.org

***ACTION ALERT***

Please contact the Leadership of the Oklahoma House of Representatives to urge them to STOP the passage of anti-GLBT legislation that has just been introduced. It is important that you identify the bill number and short title when you contact each legislator's office.

Larry Adair, Speaker
Phone: 405-557-7394
Fax: 405-557-7445
email:
adairla@lsb.state.ok.us

Danny Hilliard, Speaker Pro Tempore
Phone: 405-557-7412
Fax: 405-962-7648
email:
hilliardda@lsb.state.ok.us

Jari Askins, Speaker-elect
Phone: 405-557-7327
Fax: 580-522-3969
email:
askinsja@lsb.state.ok.us

Call or Write Today!!! Ask them to stop these measures that discriminate against GLBT Oklahomans and their families.

HB 2207 - Graves - Same gender marriage recognition
HJR 1045 - Graves - Constitutional amendment - same gender relationships
HR 1027 - Balkman-Cargill - Disapproval of US Supreme Court ruling invalidating state sodomy laws

For more information and to track the bills' progress go to
www.oglpc.org/actioncenter.htm

CONTACT YOUR LEGISLATOR NOW!
Dear editor:
Nine states seek further punitive measures to ensure that discrimination continues in these 50 brave united states towards gays and lesbians.
Does hatred of gays/lesbians have no bounds?
Our tax money will be collected without trace of embarrassment, yet civil and social programs paid for with our taxes will be denied to us. Our observance of all laws will be expected, yet the observance of our dignity and humanity will be vehemently denounced as bestial and ungodly!
Towards African-Americans, such rabid hatred and self-serving manipulation of the legal system was known. Will the lynching of gays and lesbians be next? Will crowds gather around such spectacles grinning and posing for shameless photographs as they did during the Amerikan lynching era?
Nothing will bring back Mathew Shepard or the others who have been made totems of homophobia. Their deaths must be vindicated by our united actions towards ending discrimination based on sexual orientation.
We must not be satisfied with what exists--we must strive for what is possible!
Now! Now! Now! Our time has come to once and for all ensure that our humanity is respected as it deserves. Everyone reading this must do what they can to keep our freedom momentum going forward out of the closet, out of the shame of poor self-esteem, and towards our full development as human beings of this world! You must contact, repeatedly, your elected and appointed officials to let your views be known. Information for making this contact is available at:
www.oglpc.org/actioncenter for any state legislature or government office in the USA.
James Nimmo

LETTER TO THE EDITOR
When will I not be an American any longer?
How ironic that religion is so often used as a battering ram against human rights. But the dream of equality persists precisely because it's built on a theological foundation. It's sacred as well as secular. And in the end, hopefully, this root value will be our salvation. Concerning the court case in Mass. I noticed immediately that the religious Reich were all using the phrase "Everyone has an equal right to marry. No matter if they are gay or not. Any man can marry any woman." This was a part of all of the talk shows. The religious Reich had already prepared the talking points. What this made me understand, like a light that had been flipped on, occurred when I was listening to Elizabeth Birch that same evening and it was this.... MARRIAGE WILL NOT CHANGE. MARRIAGE IS A COVENANT INVOLVING THE CHURCH. HOMOSEXUALS WILL CONTINUE TO BE MARRIED IN THE CHURCH OF THEIR CHOICE. WHEN "THEY" ATTEMPT TO SPEAK ON THE ISSUE ABOUT HOW IT WILL DESTROY THE INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE, OUR RESPONSE SHOULD BE "WE HAVE THE RIGHT TO FREEDOM OF RELIGION, WE CAN MARRY WITHIN OUR CHURCH ALREADY. YOU HAVE NO RIGHT OR POWER TO MAKE MY CHURCH CONFORM TO YOURS" WE ALSO HAVE THE FREEDOM FROM RELIGION SO WE SHOULD BE FREE TO MARRY WITHOUT THE CHURCH. All of these religious fundamentalists don't seem to understand what they themselves are saying. Fundamentalists think that a civil arrangement will affect their religious covenant. Shouldn't fundamentalist worry more about the religions that allow same gender marriage?
When will the "light" turn on for the fundamentalist? When fundamentalist demand their religious superstitions have the control of the American constitution, our constitution will fight back. If fundamentalist get to push their
agenda then we all will benefit. The constitution will win. All of us must be recognized as equal. Each time amendments or any laws that are made to exclude a single person from enjoying the promise made by our founders and the guarantee of the constitution, the efforts to destroy lives has failed. I am not a leftist. I am a liberal. I believe liberals are the blessed. Liberals most closely follow the teaching of Jesus. The people that are on the far left and the far right are the least American of all of our citizens. Those who want to pervert the constitution to their religious or anti-religious philosophy are the traitors to all of us. The debate should be allowed. But not at the expense of all Americans that believe in the vision of a free people that our founders hoped for.
I am completely torn on the issue of the fundamentalist taking control of our America. Is that what will have to happen to make the American people understand what it is like to live in a theocracy? A place where peoples lives are controlled by religious superstitions? Where the leaders talk to their god and god answers? (I find it so odd that God spoke so seldom to his son, yet there are people alive today that have a conversation with him every day. Where are all of the new chapters in the Bible? God's new words should be added to the book!)
Must the United States be place where their god tells them what to do other people? A place where their god is better than your god? Read the book "A Handmaid's Tail." It is a fiction book that details what appears to be going on in our America today. A book that details what happens as soon as it is decided that America is a nation that is controlled by religious superstition (Protestant fundamentalism). Is this what will have to happen?
They came and took my neighbor away and I said nothing…………….it might be me next…………
Edward Kromer
Oklahoma City

OKLAHOMA GLBT LEADERS ENDORSE DEAN
Over 100 Oklahoma Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Leaders have endorsed Governor Howard Dean, candidate for the Democratic Party's nomination for President of the United States.
"Governor Dean has been the only candidate to back up his speech with action, by signing Vermont's civil union law - and he stood with us through the political fallout that came with it, " says Keith Smith, a National Board Member of the Stonewall Democrats.
Dean's GLBT supporters plan to reach out to the gay community throughout the next month, since that community has been a cornerstone of Dean's campaign since the early days.
Volunteers will be actively recruiting and identifying voters for a massive "Get Out The Vote" push within the GLBT community.
The following GLBT leaders in Oklahoma have publicly endorsed Governor Dean:
Marty Newman, John Gibbons, Dr. Shirley Hunter, Keith Smith, Lee Burrus, Rhonda Rudd, Rodney Johnson, G.G. George, Philippe Beaudette, Joe Quigley, James Nimmo, Rex Ball, Nick Post, Tony Foss, Steven Edwards, Paul Bashline, TJ McKinsey, Edward Kromer, Bob Lemon, Chrys Lemon, Carmen Coronado, Karen Parsons, Pam Paul, Diane Deason, Corky Green, David Nickell, Karen Weldin, Clyde Pierce, Dorothy Alexander, Paul Barby, Jayshree Naidu, Mark Henricksen, Wanda Chapman, Dee Corley, Sonja Martinez, Preston White, David Davis, Sherry Maxwell, Kathy McKean, Susann Bain, Eotree Palmer, Stan Simpson, Jon Harle, Tim Gillean, Ken Draper, Floyd Martin, David Paddock, Phillip Cyr, Duane Moore, Joe Freeman, Will Decker, Sarah Scanlon, Carmen Coronado, Dena Link, Kent Doss, Terry Dennison, Rick Chappell, Rex Mendenhall, Jon Tipton, Jason Anderson, Toby Vanrakan, Walter Oaks, Dallas Williams, K. Brad Douglas, Julian Vasek, Gabe Coppinger, Christian Pellesehi, Steve Callahan, Buzz Anderson, David L Clark, Craig Travis, Jason Krottinger, Douglas Redus, Matthew Opalka, Tamara Knight, Pam Lowery, Gayla Barker, Lee Morgan, Robert Winders, Angelo Rodriguez Jr., Raven Delray, Steven Lofton, Felicia Fontaine, Phil Burke, Jess Brent Barnes, Robert R. Nixon, Rob Morrison, Martin Berry, Ed Walker, Gary Davis, Pearl Pearson, Glenn Ladd, Lewis Cleveland, Jesse McGee, Jr., Ben J. Williams, Patrick Mahoney, Jeffrey Askins, Jacob S. Nielsen, Monty Jacobs, Al McAffrey, JT Estrada, James K Richardson, Jeff Thompson.

2003: THE YEAR IN REVIEW NOW ONLINE!
It's all here, taken from the front page of GayOKC.com! From Jim Roth's swearing-in to the Oklahoma campaigns of the Democratic presidential candidates and the GLBT activists who are making them happen, and all the events that made 2003 a historic year in our community and hold enormous promise and potential for good and ill in 2004: including the City Council's removal of all restrictions on the banner program, GLBT impact on the City Council races, The Laramie Project, hate crimes bills, the PNI "Peace Train", PFLAG OKC, the Oklahoma Republican Party platform, Rick Santorum, Stonewall Democrats, Soulforce in Oklahoma at the Oklahoma Methodists conference, Rev. Gene Robinson, Howard Dean, Lawrence v Texas, Fred Phelps pickets Billy Graham, the Cathedral of Hope disaffiliating from MCC, the Democratic presidential forum in Stillwater, reorganization of the Cimarron Alliance Group, the Norman Transcript printing a same-gender union announcement, OKC Public Schools superintendent Bob Moore's letter to Joe Quigley stating in writing that it is against district policy to discriminate against GLBT students, the first ever GLBT History Month display at NW classen High School, Kirk Humphrey's resignation as mayor so he can run for the Senate, the "Love Won Out" conference, the Massachusetts Supreme Court decision regarding Gay marriage and the response from Oklahoma legislators, Brad Carson's support for the Federal Marriage Amendment and the Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats' decision not to support his campaign for re-election, Jacqueline Gatewood's "Diversity House" project and the announcement of a statewide coalition of GLBT organizations in Oklahoma!
Part One: January - June
Part Two: July - September
Part Three: October - December

2002 IN REVIEW STILL ONLINE!
www.gayokc.com/yearinreview2002.htm

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August 27, 2003
Dear Mr. Quigley,
Please know that this district does not discriminate against any student. That includes gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered students.
Sincerely,
Bob Moore, Superintendent,
Oklahoma City
Public Schools

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