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Now online at GayOKC.com Sat, Jan 31, 2004

PRIMARY FEB 3
Oklahoma's Presidential Preferential Primary is next Tuesday, and Oklahoma's GLBT Democrats are heavily involved as never before in this year's election. Part of that is due to the the acceptance of GLBT activists by the
Oklahoma Democratic Party - as reflected in the fact that Paul Barby, who ran for office as an openly-Gay candidate, is currently the Party's state secretary - and the Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats was made an official Party organization at the last state Democratic Party convention. And part of it is from the move by then-senator Keith Leftwich to move Oklahoma's primary date up. This has placed Oklahoma in the front tier of state primaries, focusing national attention on Oklahoma that it has never gotten before and energizing politics here in a way that can only come from being wooed by several Presidential candidates at the same trime.
And, of course, another part is Howard Dean, who won the admiration of the GLBT Community when he signed the nation's first civil unions law as governor of Vermont. While many in our community are supporting Dean for that reason, among others, there are others in our community who are supporting other candidates, such as Jim Roth and Terry Gatewood, who have endorsed Wesley Clark (currently on the cover of
The Advocate). All of them are sure to be a big part of the voter turnout in this primary. While the polls will be open on Tues, Feb 3, early voting actually started Friday.
Oklahoma State Election Board

EDWARDS IN OKC
You are cordially invited to join Senator John Edwards
For his "America Works Best When It Works For Everyone Tour"
Saturday, January 31, 1:30
Edwards For President GOTV Rally
United Association of Plumbers and Pipefitters, Local 344
4335 SW 44
ALL EVENTS ARE FREE AND OPEN TO THE PUBLIC
For more information call (405) 525-2000

KERRY IN OKC
Current front-runner Kerry will be making a rare Oklahoma appearance.
Saturday, January 31, 4:00 p.m.
John Kerry for President Rally
Come meet Senator Kerry
Firefighers Museum
2716 NE 50th Street
Info: Rachel Morse,
okyoungdem@aol.com or politicalrachel@aol.com

CLARK RALLY
Saturday, January 31, 6 p.m.
Rally for General Wesley Clark
Rupel Jones Theatre
563 Elm (Corner of Boyd and Elm)
Norman

NLA EVENT
Hello Everyone…  NLA-OKC is having their PPF Fundraiser this coming Saturday night January 31st at the Finishline from 9 pm – 2 am.  Randall Kinnear will be our Emcee and we will have several entertainment acts performing during the night.  There will be someone selling tickets for drawings during every entertainment section and of course, jell-o shots will be sold in the Finishline and Copa all night long…
Every penny made will go to the PPF Fund and be divided in half and sent to both the NCSF and the LA&M.  We invite all you other kinky Oklahoma folks out to join NLA-OKC in raising some money for two very worthwhile Lifestyle organizations.
We’ll be there until 2 am so come late if you have to… but please come…
The PPF Fund is an exciting way to support two fantastic organizations dedicated to protecting the past and future of our Community. How can you support this cause?
You can make a donation directly to either organization by snail mail (at the address listed below). Please make your check payable to either Leather Archives & Museum, National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, or send a check for each! You can also make a direct donation to either organization electronically at
http://ppffund.org.
The preferred way to support this event is to attend the MANY PPF events that will be scheduled across North America. The clubs and bars hosting these events will commit to donating a portion of the event proceeds to this cause.
Why should you donate to the LA&M or the NCSF through the PPF Fund, instead of directly?
On Saturday, January 31, 2004, across North America we are asking that everyone involved with a club, munch, bar, etc., get their Community involved by hosting an event at the local Leather/Kink friendly bars on this date. We would like a portion of these proceeds to be donated equally to the LA&M and the NCSF through the PPF Fund. Get involved! Be part of this North America – wide fundraising event!
If you're interested in attending a PPF event, are a bar or nightclub owner who would like to host an event, or a Leather club that would like to organize a PPF night: Then please contact us now! We have a calendar of PPF events, and can tell you what's happening in your area. Or, we can list your PPF Fund event on our calendar.
The first night scheduled for PPF Fund events is January 31, 2004. This inaugural event will benefit both the LA&M and the NCSF. We'll then have events on a quarterly basis, benefiting one and then the other.
These organizations need the support of our community in order to protect our history, as well as our future freedom. If we don't help them, no one will. So please... "Give `till it hurts"
Tammie Nelson, International Ms Leather 2003
John Schmitt, Indiana Leather editor, Midwest Ursine
Beneficiaries:
Leather Archives & Museum,
http://leatherarchives.org
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom,
http://ncsfreedom.org
Thanks so much for your support.  And feel free to crosspost this to other lists as you feel they are appropriate.
In Leather Pride,
~Michelle
NLA-OKC Co-Chair
Tribal Fire Vendor Coordinator
LLC Board Member

BAT BOY
Preview of Bat Boy: The Musical To Benefit
RAIN Oklahoma
Tulsa—Following last summer’s highly successful run of Bat Boy: The Musical, American Theatre Company is bringing the show back for a second run at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center February 6-14.
ATC is graciously allowing RAIN Oklahoma to sell tickets to their dress rehearsal of Bat Boy on Wednesday, February 4 at 8:00 pm. Tickets for this preview are only $5.00. All proceeds from the February 4 performance will go to RAIN (Regional AIDS Interfaith Network), which provides non-medical assistance to people living with AIDS throughout Oklahoma.
Rescued from a cave, a half-boy, half-bat is taken to a veterinarian's home to be "put down." The empathetic wife of the vet has other ideas, and with loving guidance teaches "Edgar" to speak and act in civilized ways. When he falls in love with his mentor's daughter, problems erupt that go beyond typical dating issues. Fast-paced and hilarious, this off-kilter satire offers clever musical numbers, a hilarious plot, surprising twists, and a lesson in the agony of being different and accepting your inner beast. The show contains some adult situations and may not be suitable for young children.
Michael Smith of the Tulsa World called last summer’s production of Bat Boy “A smash, the hippest, most hilarious show on a PAC stage in a long time.”
Tickets for the RAIN benefit performance are general admission and can be reserved by calling Justice at the Tulsa RAIN office at (918) 834-4195, or emailing Justice at
raintulsa@sbcglobal.net.
Tickets for the regular run of Bat Boy: The Musical are $20-$24. They can be purchased at the Tulsa Performing Arts center ticket office or reserved by phone at (918) 596-7111 Monday thru Friday from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm. Tickets may also be purchased at
www.tulsapac.com.

SONJA & FRIENDS
My guests for Friday, February 6, are Lynnette Stroebele and Roxy Hart. Show Time 8:00 PM To 9:00 PM At Partners. Thank You,
Sonja

OKLAHOMA GLBT LEADERS ENDORSE DEAN
Over 100 Oklahoma Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Leaders have endorsed Governor Howard Dean, candidate for the Democratic Party's nomination for President of the United States.
"Governor Dean has been the only candidate to back up his speech with action, by signing Vermont's civil union law - and he stood with us through the political fallout that came with it, " says Keith Smith, a National Board Member of the Stonewall Democrats.
Dean's GLBT supporters plan to reach out to the gay community throughout the next month, since that community has been a cornerstone of Dean's campaign since the early days.
Volunteers will be actively recruiting and identifying voters for a massive "Get Out The Vote" push within the GLBT community.
The following GLBT leaders in Oklahoma have publicly endorsed Governor Dean:
Marty Newman, John Gibbons, Dr. Shirley Hunter, Keith Smith, Lee Burrus, Rhonda Rudd, Rodney Johnson, G.G. George, Philippe Beaudette, Joe Quigley, James Nimmo, Rex Ball, Nick Post, Tony Foss, Steven Edwards, Paul Bashline, TJ McKinsey, Edward Kromer, Bob Lemon, Chrys Lemon, Carmen Coronado, Karen Parsons, Pam Paul, Diane Deason, Corky Green, David Nickell, Karen Weldin, Clyde Pierce, Dorothy Alexander, Paul Barby, Jayshree Naidu, Mark Henricksen, Wanda Chapman, Dee Corley, Sonja Martinez, Preston White, David Davis, Sherry Maxwell, Kathy McKean, Susann Bain, Eotree Palmer, Stan Simpson, Jon Harle, Tim Gillean, Ken Draper, Floyd Martin, David Paddock, Phillip Cyr, Duane Moore, Joe Freeman, Will Decker, Sarah Scanlon, Carmen Coronado, Dena Link, Kent Doss, Terry Dennison, Rick Chappell, Rex Mendenhall, Jon Tipton, Jason Anderson, Toby Vanrakan, Walter Oaks, Dallas Williams, K. Brad Douglas, Julian Vasek, Gabe Coppinger, Christian Pellesehi, Steve Callahan, Buzz Anderson, David L Clark, Craig Travis, Jason Krottinger, Douglas Redus, Matthew Opalka, Tamara Knight, Pam Lowery, Gayla Barker, Lee Morgan, Robert Winders, Angelo Rodriguez Jr., Raven Delray, Steven Lofton, Felicia Fontaine, Phil Burke, Jess Brent Barnes, Robert R. Nixon, Rob Morrison, Martin Berry, Ed Walker, Gary Davis, Pearl Pearson, Glenn Ladd, Lewis Cleveland, Jesse McGee, Jr., Ben J. Williams, Patrick Mahoney, Jeffrey Askins, Jacob S. Nielsen, Monty Jacobs, Al McAffrey, JT Estrada, James K Richardson, Jeff Thompson.

OFEC ISSUES ACTION ALERT ON SJR 38
Dear OFEC Members and Supporters,
A bill has been filed in the Oklahoma Senate. Please read and take action today!
Karen Weldin
Rodney Johnson
OFEC Co-Chairs
Info@OFEC.org
www.ofec.org
STOP the passage of anti-GLBT legislation that has just been introduced
Senate Republican Floor Leader James A. Williamson, R-Tulsa, introduced legislation, SJR 38, to send a “defense of marriage” constitutional amendment to a vote of the people. Williamson’s constitutional amendment would define marriage as “the union of one man and one woman,” and would prohibit the state from recognizing same-gender marriages performed in other states. The amendment also states, “Neither this Constitution nor any other provision of law shall be construed to require that marital status or the legal incidents thereof be conferred upon unmarried couples or groups.”
Take Action Now! Tell your senator the you will not stand for this type of divisive, mean-spirited law that were designed to single out and marginalize an entire group of Oklahomans for unequal treatment." I ask you to tell your senator we will not marginalize any Oklahoman by voting no on SJR 38.
Take Action!

"MARRIAGE PROTECTION" AMENDMENT INTRODUCED IN OK SENATE
The following press release was issued by senator Williamson's office on Friday, January 23.
Senate Republican Leader Introduces ‘Marriage Protection’ Amendment
Williamson Appeals for Governor Henry’s Leadership, Support on Issue
State Capitol, Oklahoma City – Senate Republican Floor Leader James A. Williamson, R-Tulsa, today introduced legislation, SJR 38, to send a “defense of marriage” constitutional amendment to a vote of the people.
“As President Bush noted in his State of the Union address, the sanctity of marriage is under assault from activist judges in America today,” Williamson said. “Amending our state Constitution is the best way we can ensure traditional marriage is protected here in Oklahoma.”
Williamson’s constitutional amendment would define marriage as “the union of one man and one woman,” and would prohibit the state from recognizing same-gender marriages performed in other states. The amendment also states, “Neither this Constitution nor any other provision of law shall be construed to require that marital status or the legal incidents thereof be conferred upon unmarried couples or groups.”
Williamson said despite recent remarks by Gov. Brad Henry that additional protections for marriage are not needed, Oklahoma is at risk of a court decision like last year’s ruling by the Massachusetts Supreme Court legalizing gay marriage in that state.
“I asked the Senate’s general counsel to review the Massachusetts case to determine if an activist Oklahoma judge could make a similar ruling based on the working of our state Constitution. The answer was, yes, there is a risk that this type of ruling could occur in Oklahoma.
“This is why Oklahoma needs a constitutional amendment to protect traditional marriage. Republicans are appealing to Gov. Henry to change his mind about this important issue and join us in a bipartisan effort to constitutionally protect marriage in Oklahoma,” Williamson stated.
Williamson said he also supports legislation by House Republicans that encourages the U.S. Congress to provide federal constitutional protections for marriage.
“Protecting traditional marriage is one the most important social and moral issues of the day. Encouraging Congress to take action at the federal level is a very important part of protecting traditional marriage in the United States,” he stated.
Rep. Mike O’Neal, R-Enid, is the House co-author of SJR 38.

2003: THE YEAR IN REVIEW NOW ONLINE!
It's all here, taken from the front page of GayOKC.com! From Jim Roth's swearing-in to the Oklahoma campaigns of the Democratic presidential candidates and the GLBT activists who are making them happen, and all the events that made 2003 a historic year in our community and hold enormous promise and potential for good and ill in 2004: including the City Council's removal of all restrictions on the banner program, GLBT impact on the City Council races, The Laramie Project, hate crimes bills, the PNI "Peace Train", PFLAG OKC, the Oklahoma Republican Party platform, Rick Santorum, Stonewall Democrats, Soulforce in Oklahoma at the Oklahoma Methodists conference, Rev. Gene Robinson, Howard Dean, Lawrence v Texas, Fred Phelps pickets Billy Graham, the Cathedral of Hope disaffiliating from MCC, the Democratic presidential forum in Stillwater, reorganization of the Cimarron Alliance Group, the Norman Transcript printing a same-gender union announcement, OKC Public Schools superintendent Bob Moore's letter to Joe Quigley stating in writing that it is against district policy to discriminate against GLBT students, the first ever GLBT History Month display at NW classen High School, Kirk Humphrey's resignation as mayor so he can run for the Senate, the "Love Won Out" conference, the Massachusetts Supreme Court decision regarding Gay marriage and the response from Oklahoma legislators, Brad Carson's support for the Federal Marriage Amendment and the Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats' decision not to support his campaign for re-election, Jacqueline Gatewood's "Diversity House" project and the announcement of a statewide coalition of GLBT organizations in Oklahoma!
Part One: January - June
Part Two: July - September
Part Three: October - December

2002 IN REVIEW STILL ONLINE!
www.gayokc.com/yearinreview2002.htm

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August 27, 2003
Dear Mr. Quigley,
Please know that this district does not discriminate against any student. That includes gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered students.
Sincerely,
Bob Moore, Superintendent,
Oklahoma City
Public Schools

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