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MASSACHUSETTS SUPREME COURT OK'S GAY MARRIAGE
Massachusetts' state Supreme Court ruled Wednesday "that gays are entitled to nothing less than marriage and that Vermont-style civil unions will not suffice". Writing that "The history of our nation has demonstrated that separate is seldom, if ever, equal," Wednesday's opinion by the Supreme Judicial Court left no doubt: Only marriage would pass constitutional muster.
Mass. Court Clears Way for Gay Marriages

NUUF MARRIAGE AD
Speaking of marriage rights, Susan Cogan at the
Norman Unitarian Church has put together an ad which they would like to place in the Norman Transcript. The half-page ad will cost $825. According to Susan: "This is beyond the means of our tiny church and we are asking for donations to help pay for it."
If you would like to donate to the cost of running the ad, Mail Checks to:

NUUF
1309 W. Boyd
Norman, OK 73069

Please make out checks to "NUUF" with "marriage ad" on the memo line. Include a note indicating whether or not you want your name to appear on the ad. These donations are tax deductible.
Here is a pdf of the ad:
http://www.nuuf.org/ad_for_transcript.pdf

You can reach Susan at susan-brassfield@ou.edu.

ANDREA RATKOVIC REPORTS IN FROM MALLORCA
Here is the first installment of Norman-based Andrea Ratkovic's Mallorca training journal for GayOKC.com:
Hey everybody, it's Andrea Ratkovic reporting to you from Mallorca, Spain. I'm here at training camp with my new cycling team, TDS. I haven't bike raced in a few years. I raced professionally back in 2000 and 2001 and then got into duathlons and triathlons. I have raced professionally as a duathlete and triathlete since 2001. Before cycling, I was a runner specializing in the marathon where I ran a 2:34. I went to school at OU on a full track and crosscountry scholarship. You can keep up with me at all times by visiting my website at www.andrearatkovic.com.
I appeared on the cover of Curve magazine in October of 2001 and am scheduled for some other interviews and such. I have been in Outside, Girlfriends, and The Advocate. Obviously, I am an "out" lesbian. I feel I need to be this way because if I treat homosexuality as an abnormality i.e. hide it then how can I expect other people to treat it as normal?
Anyway, I'm situated in a hotel just outside the city of Palma right on the Mediterranean Sea. It is absolutely beautiful. Palma actually has a gay district, but I have yet to visit it. Mostly, I am riding about 4-5 hours every day. My team rides a lot in the mountains. The roads are very narrow, but the cars are very aware, and cyclists are well respected in this part of the world which is both refreshing and nice.
A men's pro tour started here a few days ago and ends on Thursday. Many of the Tour de France riders are here. There are some very nice legs ridin' around here, boyz!! Anyway, I've chatted with some of them, and they are just delightful. It is fun trying to communicate with them as most know very little English. They are from all over Europe. It is cool seeing the guys who I watch every year on TV in the Tour de France.
I'll let you know how the gay district is in Palma when I go there. Supposedly, this area is a hot spot for vacations both gay and straight. There are quite a few hotels that cater to the gay population. There are nudist beaches too!
ciao,
Andrea

GROWING & LEARNING WITH SISSY NEWEST WEBISODE
Sissy becomes a teenage hobbledehoy and goes to join the Loyal Order of the Hobbledehoys. What's a hobbledhoy? Find out in Sissy's newest webisode titled "The Hobbledehoys" starring Brett Young as the President and Jenn Manley as the Vice-President with David Mays as Sissy.
http://www.tarsplace.com/Webisode_Five.htm
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TOLBERT FUNDRAISER
Several people in the community are putting together a fundraiser for Jim Tolbert for Mayor of Oklahoma City. The fundraiser will be held Friday night, February 13th. We are seeking sponsors for this event so that we can show our Community's support for this extraordinary candidate. This Mayoral election is so critically important to the continued progress of Oklahoma City and of our Community.
Sponsorships are:
Underwriter: $500.00
Host: $250.00
Sponsor: $100.00
If you would like to be a sponsor let us know at what level you would like to contribute and how your name(s) should appear on the invitation. Invitations are going out this Saturday so please let us know by Thursday night. You may email your reply to
tgatewood@cox.net or call Terry Gatewood at 405-842-1824.
Thank You!
Terry Gatewood

BAT BOY
Preview of Bat Boy: The Musical To Benefit
RAIN Oklahoma
Tulsa—Following last summer’s highly successful run of Bat Boy: The Musical, American Theatre Company is bringing the show back for a second run at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center February 6-14.
ATC is graciously allowing RAIN Oklahoma to sell tickets to their dress rehearsal of Bat Boy on Wednesday, February 4 at 8:00 pm. Tickets for this preview are only $5.00. All proceeds from the February 4 performance will go to RAIN (Regional AIDS Interfaith Network), which provides non-medical assistance to people living with AIDS throughout Oklahoma.
Rescued from a cave, a half-boy, half-bat is taken to a veterinarian's home to be "put down." The empathetic wife of the vet has other ideas, and with loving guidance teaches "Edgar" to speak and act in civilized ways. When he falls in love with his mentor's daughter, problems erupt that go beyond typical dating issues. Fast-paced and hilarious, this off-kilter satire offers clever musical numbers, a hilarious plot, surprising twists, and a lesson in the agony of being different and accepting your inner beast. The show contains some adult situations and may not be suitable for young children.
Michael Smith of the Tulsa World called last summer’s production of Bat Boy “A smash, the hippest, most hilarious show on a PAC stage in a long time.”
Tickets for the RAIN benefit performance are general admission and can be reserved by calling Justice at the Tulsa RAIN office at (918) 834-4195, or emailing Justice at
raintulsa@sbcglobal.net.
Tickets for the regular run of Bat Boy: The Musical are $20-$24. They can be purchased at the Tulsa Performing Arts center ticket office or reserved by phone at (918) 596-7111 Monday thru Friday from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm. Tickets may also be purchased at
www.tulsapac.com.

SONJA & FRIENDS
My guests for Friday, February 6, are Lynnette Stroebele and Roxy Hart. Show Time 8:00 PM To 9:00 PM At Partners. Thank You,
Sonja

HERLAND VOICE
The February edition of the Herland Voice is now online.
www.herlandsisters.org

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August 27, 2003
Dear Mr. Quigley,
Please know that this district does not discriminate against any student. That includes gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered students.
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