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OKC MAYOR ELECTION FEB 24
The Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus sent a survey to the candidates running for Mayor of Oklahoma City. Jim Tolbert chose NOT TO RESPOND to the survey. The only candidate who responded out of the four candidates was Marcus Hayes. Mr Tolbert is scheduled to address the Stonewall Democrats meeting on Wednesday (see below).

RALLY UPDATE
It now appears almost certain that there will be a counter-protest to the Balkman-Cargill rally (see below). When all the details have been worked out, I will post them on GayOKC.com.

THE FIGHT IS ON!
I received the following from Floyd Martin:

Forwarding this email at request of State Representative Thad Balkman:

Rep. Lance Cargill and I are organizing a Rally for Traditional Marriage on the steps of the Capitol Tuesday, February 17th at noon. We need a BIG turnout so that all legislators and our governor know that Oklahomans support amending the Constitution to protect traditional marriage. Invited guests are Cam Edwards, Michael Delgiorno, Tom Coburn, JC Watts, and religious leaders across Oklahoma. We also need people to donate their time to man a table where people can sign petitions and "check in." I would also like to print up banners with pro-family and marriage slogans. Please spread the word.
Thanks, Thad

OFEC TRACKS ANTI-GLBT BILLS
A list of the anti-GLBT bills that have been introduced in this session of the Oklahoma legislature is now online at the website of the Oklahoma Freedom and Equality Coalition.
www.ofec.org/ActionAlerts.htm

GROWING & LEARNING WITH SISSY NEWEST WEBISODE
Growing and Learning with Sissy's Latest Webisode - Just in time for Valentine's Day, Sissy, played by David Mays, takes a dare and meets his first love but how long will it last? Find out in the webisode titled, Truth or Dare Pt.1: Dare. Aaron Bennett, a Theatre student from Stillwater's Oklahoma State University, plays Sissy's First Love.
http://www.tarsplace.com/Webisode_Six.htm

TOLBERT TO SPEAK AT STONEWALL DEMOCRATS
Oklahoma Stonewall has invited, and he has accepted, OKC mayoral candidate, Jim Tolbert, to address the assembled Stonewall members and all other interested Democratic Party supporters, as well as the curious of any other political orientation, at Stonewall's February meeting, Wednesday, 11th, starting at 7:00pm, Krumme Center, 4100 N. Lincoln, State Democratic Party HQ.
Our business meeting will begin at 7:00 with Mr.Tolbert arriving at approximately 7:30.
Questions or comments can be sent my way at
treasurer@oklahomastonewall.org, or call 843-3651.
Jim Nimmo

TOLBERT FUNDRAISER
Jim Tolbert For Mayor of Oklahoma City Fundraiser
Friday, February 13th, 5:30p.m. - 7:00p.m.
TAP Architecture, 415 Broadway
Underwriters: Bob & Mary Lou Lemon Family and Richard Ogden
Hosts: Hon. Debbie & Bob Blackburn, Anthony McDermid, Terry Gatewood, Scott Wilson
Sponsors: Margaret Cox, Bill Hawk and David Nickel, Chris Hake, Rob Howard, and the Hon. Jim Roth, Jeff Erwing & Sam Blackstock, Joe Freeman & Michael Tone, Gaylon & Jane Stacey, and J.B. Scheulein
Please R.S.V.P. to 842-1824 or
tgatewood@cox.net
If you are unable to attend but would like to contribute, please contact the campaign at the above phone number and/or addresses.

ANDREA RATKOVIC'S MALLORCA JOURNAL
Norman-based out lesbian athlete Andrea Ratkovic is currently at a training camp in Spain preparing to try out for the Olympic cycling team and has offered to write about her experience for GayOKC.com.
New entry posted today!
www.gayokc.com/ratkovicjournal.htm

OK LEGISLATORS SPAR OVER MARRIAGE
Republican lawmakers are accusing Democrats of foot-dragging over anti-GLBT marriage legislation. Democrats accuse Republicans of hysteria. Bernest Cain says that anyone who opposes same sex marriages is "a bigot." Gov Henry issued a statement on Thursday supporting "traditional marriage".
GOP leaders hit Democrats on gay marriages

MAY MUSIC FEST
RAIN Oklahoma and CarePoint present, once again, the May Music Fest, Saturday, May 8 at the Farmer's Market. Performers will include Pinkie & the Snakeshakers, Wendy Woo and Shelly Phelps. More info is at
www.rainoklahoma.org and www.care-point.org.

RAY TO LEAVE NORMAN CITY COUNCIL
A chapter of Oklahoma's GLBT history will come to a close when Norman holds its next city council elections. According to this week's Oklahoma Gazette, Norman City Councilperson David Ray will not seek re-election. Ray became the first-ever openly Gay candidate to be elected to office in Oklahoma when he was sworn-in in April 2002. (Jim Roth became the second such person in Oklahoma history when he was sworn-in as Oklahoma County commissioner in January 2003.)
Ray says that he will devote his full attention to his political science professorship at OU, despite apparent interest from constituents who want him to run for mayor of Norman.

BARLOW DROPS OUT
Barlow opts out of 2004 congressional race
February 5, 2004
For Immediate Release
Barlow cites balancing family life and campaign rigors as reason for opting out of race
Lou Barlow, who entered the race in July 2004, announced plans today to opt out of the congressional race in Oklahoma's fifth district. Barlow had been diligently working toward the Democratic nomination to take on Congressman Ernest Istook to represent Oklahomans in the fifth congressional district.
Barlow, who raised over $100,000 in his short campaign, also announced that he would make pro-rated refunds to campaign donors who have supported his candidacy.
Barlow said, "I am eager to change the way Washington operates and to help send the special interests packing. Unfortunately, this year will not the year for me to make my case to the people; that we deserve better and we can't afford to have a congressman representing us who does not fight for our community in Washington, D.C."
Barlow commented that this announcement allows him to increase his involvement in the daily lives of his children and wife, as he discussed why he would not be campaigning for the nomination to take on Istook. Barlow also has a major role in his family's business, Barlow Education Management Services. He said that he got into the race for the right reasons, but that now is not the right time for him, considering the rigors of a campaign to defeat an entrenched incumbent.

JIM ROTH ON OKLAHOMA'S PRESIDENTIAL PRIMARY
Oklahoma voters recognize a qualified leader in life, in war and in peace. General Wesley Clark's victory in Oklahoma proves that his strong stand for equality for ALL Americans is the right message for fair-minded citizens all across America.
General Wesley Clark is a 'Uniter,' which our Country needs during these difficult and divisive times in America. I am proud that he has stood strong with his belief in Equality for ALL and I am proud of us Oklahomans who stood with him.
Jim Roth

JIM NIMMO ON OKLAHOMA'S PRESIDENTIAL PRIMARY
Influence is no Government
In trying to quarterback the Oklahoma Tuesday primary let me say in the interest of full disclosure that I'm still rooting for Howard Dean, the grassroots candidate extraordinaire.
As chair of my precinct 452, our officers organized a primary forum at which all campaigns were invited. As the officers were also strong Dean supporters, we sent out a Dean mailing to 800 of the strongest Democratic precinct voters. I worked the Dean phone banks and made yard signs. But my own efforts of time and money were very modest when compared to the state-wide accomplishments made by others.
I will be voting for the Democratic nominee of the Boston Convention, regardless of who it is. But it will be hard to love that person if it's not Howard Dean. And why shouldn't it be Dean on the Democratic side of the November ballot?
The man is a passionate campaigner and, so I hear, a good dancer! His campaign is the standard by which all the other campaigns are measured, especially in the use of the Internet for information dissemination, voter involvement, and fund raising.
I would like to state the fact that Kerry made no visits to Oklahoma until January 31, 2004. He had no formal campaign office in Oklahoma prior to our Democratic primary.
So why is the Dean campaign now in a parlous state of edginess? I suggest you take a look at a review written by David Podvin available on line at:
The Scream
This story does a good job, by my lights, at describing the terrible collision of a campaign which wants to take back our country from the korporate interests, and the brick wall constructed by the bought media as it protects its feudal masters living in the high castle.
Our Oklahoma State Party Secretary Paul Barby warned several years ago of the danger, now upon all USA citizens, of a concentrated media in the hands of a very few korporate barons. This influence is pernicious and has deep pockets. The FCC was overruled by Congress when the FCC wanted to increase media ownership in any single market. However even this admonition to koporate kontrol was eliminated by an amendment to one the the Federal budget bills, allowing koporate ownership to rise as high as 39%, exactly the level of ownership now sustained by the Murdock Media Empire. Serendipitous or sanctimonious? Look at the PBS program, "NOW" with Bill Moyers, at
www.pbs.org for more detail on this threat to American liberty.
As George Washington said of Shay's Rebellion of 1786, "influence is no government."
Our Congress is influenced and is not governing. Dean's campaign threatened this tidy contract between our elected officials and our unelected korporations.
Is this what the Oklahoma voters have exchanged for their boundless apathy: a hearty and passionate Dean candidacy for a ho-hum business as usual Kerry campaign with ties to korporate interests?
The nominee of Boston must make changes in the korporate influence in government if America is to fulfill its promise of Democracy. Is anyone but Dean up to the challenge?
James Nimmo,
Delegate to the Democratic State Convention, February 21

NUUF MARRIAGE AD
Speaking of marriage rights, Susan Cogan at the
Norman Unitarian Church has put together an ad which they would like to place in the Norman Transcript. The half-page ad will cost $825. According to Susan: "This is beyond the means of our tiny church and we are asking for donations to help pay for it."
If you would like to donate to the cost of running the ad, Mail Checks to:

NUUF
1309 W. Boyd
Norman, OK 73069

Please make out checks to "NUUF" with "marriage ad" on the memo line. Include a note indicating whether or not you want your name to appear on the ad. These donations are tax deductible.
Here is a pdf of the ad:
http://www.nuuf.org/ad_for_transcript.pdf

You can reach Susan at susan-brassfield@ou.edu.

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