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Now online at GayOKC.com Sat, Feb 14, 2004

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!

RALLY PERMIT APPROVED
Thanks to Jim Craig for getting a permit for the counter-protest:

Dear Friends,
As many of you are aware, several hate-mongering state legislators are hosting a "traditional" marriage rally to drum up support for the Oklahoma constitutional amendment and other resolutions/bills prohibiting same-gender marriage. This is a direct assault on our freedoms. We cannot allow this blatant attack on our civil rights to occur unchallenged. Our voices must be heard.
Therefore, The Interfaith Diversity and Equality Association will host a Civil Marriage Equality Rally at the same time, 12:00 PM - 1:00 PM on Tuesday, February 17th. Our permit allows for some gathering time in advance of the rally. It will take place at the Veterans Memorial on the grounds of the Historical Society, across the street to the southeast of the State Capital, in direct view of their rally.
Please plan on attending this important event. We need a large turnout to effectively express our message of freedom and justice for all. For more information, contact me at this email address or call me at 405-596-9826.
Please forward this invitation extensively.
Peace,
Jim Craig
Coordinator
IDEA

MORE ON THE RALLY AND THE LEGISLATURE FROM KEITH SMITH
Dear Activists:

SB 710 may be heard as early as Monday Feb 16th. This bill would force Doctors to give so called "Informed Consent" before performing an abortion on a woman. The so called "Informed Consent" includes unscientific information that the Anti-Choice Community hopes will terrorize the woman into not having the abortion. It also requires a waiting period after delivery of said informed consent which the courts have already ruled was unconstitutional. We need to let Doctors practice medicine instead of Right Wing Extremist Legislators.

The Anti-Choice community, The Home Schoolers, and the Anti-Gay community have banded together for a big rally on Tuesday Feb 17th at the capitol. See the Republican Email which was sent out below. I hope the Pro-Choice community and Marriage Equality Community will band together to out lobby them. Please come to the capitol to walk the halls and lobby legislators. Wear Pro-Choice buttons and Marriage Equality Buttons. They are coming after us with the worst they have ......we must come back at them with the best we have.........

Pro Choice alert
Please contact the following legislators and ask them to not pass SB 710 into law. This may be the most urgent and important pro-choice alert you get this legislative year. Please take action now. When you contact them by email or phone make sure that you give them your name address and phone number.

Senator Jeff Rabon
rabon@lsb.state.ok.us 405-524-0126
Senator Kenneth Corn
corn@lsb.state.ok.us 405-524-0126
Senator Jay Paul Gumm
gumm@lsb.state.ok.us 405-524-0126
Senator Charles Laster
laster@lsb.state.ok.us 405-524-0126
Senator Daisy Lawler
lawler@lsb.state.ok.us 405-524-0126
Senator Richard Lerblance
lerblancer@lsb.state.ok.us 405-524-0126
Senator Bruce Price
price@lsb.state.ok.us 405-524-0126

Marriage Equality Alert
Please contact the following legislators and ask them to not support any anti-gay marriage initiative. In light of the recent scandalous allegations about sexual impropriety by married Republican Legislator and author of anti-gay marriage legislation, Representative Mike O'Neal it appears the legislature lacks the moral authority to be passing any anti gay marriage legislation. This alert targets Republican Leaders and authors of anti-gay marriage legislation. Please help now. When you contact them by email or phone make sure that you give them your name address and phone number.

Representative Todd Hiett
hiettto@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Susan Winchester
winchestersu@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Thad Balkman
balkman@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Kevin Calvey
calveyke@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Lance Cargill
cargillla@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Terry Harrison
harrisonte@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Rebecca Hamilton
hamiltonre@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Mike O'Neal
onealmi@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Purcy Walker
walkerpu@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative John Wright
wrightjo@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Chris Benge
bengech@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Bill Graves
gravesbi@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Senator Daisy Lawler
lawler@lsb.state.ok.us 405-524-0126
Senator James Williamson
williamson@lsb.state.ok.us 405-524-0126

Keith Smith
5536 N. Villa
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, 73112
home 405-840-2219
office 405-488-1462
cell 405-760-6801
fax 405-424-7410
email:
Keith@Oklahomalobbyist.com
web site:
www.Oklahomalobbyist.com

Our Opponents' email alert......

February 12, 2004

The pro-abortion majority in the State House of Representatives is up to their old tricks again. Rep. Fred Stanley, Chairman of the House Public Health Committee, had agreed to allow his committee to hear the Informed Consent bill (House Bill 2534), which was authored by Representative Purcey Walker, on February 11. However, Speaker Adair, along with Representatives Rice and Hilliard, are attempting to block the bill. We need you, and other pro-life citizens like yourself, to take a stand.

We will be going to the State Capitol on Tuesday, February 17th to lobby for this bill. We want to invite you to come and make your desire known as well. We must band together and make a statement to the pro-abortion leadership; they must know that Oklahoma will not stand by while they continue to allow women to be lied to about the true effects of abortion.

If it is at all possible, we ask you to take time to come to the Capitol on Tuesday. We will be in the lobby of the State House Chamber on the 4th floor from 10:00 AM until 10:30 AM and again from 1:30 PM until 2:00PM if you need help finding your representative. We will have fact sheets that you will be able to give to the Speaker and other Representatives.

On that same day, there will be a pro-family rally on the south steps of the Capitol Building. Speakers are to include Cam Edwards from KTOK, Michael DelGiorno from KFAQ, and former Congressmen Tom Coburn and JC Watts. This rally is intended to show the legislators that Oklahomans want an amendment to the State Constitution to protect traditional marriage. The rally will begin at noon.

If you are unable to come to Oklahoma City, please do take the time to call Speaker Adair, Representatives Hilliard and Rice, and your State Representative. Also, please pray earnestly that this bill will be heard.

THE FIGHT IS ON!
I received the following from Floyd Martin:

Forwarding this email at request of State Representative Thad Balkman:

Rep. Lance Cargill and I are organizing a Rally for Traditional Marriage on the steps of the Capitol Tuesday, February 17th at noon. We need a BIG turnout so that all legislators and our governor know that Oklahomans support amending the Constitution to protect traditional marriage. Invited guests are Cam Edwards, Michael Delgiorno, Tom Coburn, JC Watts, and religious leaders across Oklahoma. We also need people to donate their time to man a table where people can sign petitions and "check in." I would also like to print up banners with pro-family and marriage slogans. Please spread the word.
Thanks, Thad

ANDREA RATKOVIC'S MALLORCA JOURNAL
New update posted!
Norman-based out lesbian athlete Andrea Ratkovic is currently at a training camp in Spain preparing to try out for the Olympic cycling team and has offered to write about her experience for GayOKC.com.
www.gayokc.com/ratkovicjournal.htm

NUUF MARRIAGE AD
Update: The deadline for donations is Wednesday, February 18, for the ad to appear in the Sunday, February 22 edition.
Speaking of marriage rights, Susan Cogan at the
Norman Unitarian Church has put together an ad which they would like to place in the Norman Transcript. The half-page ad will cost $825. According to Susan: "This is beyond the means of our tiny church and we are asking for donations to help pay for it."
If you would like to donate to the cost of running the ad, Mail Checks to:

NUUF
1309 W. Boyd
Norman, OK 73069

Please make out checks to "NUUF" with "marriage ad" on the memo line. Include a note indicating whether or not you want your name to appear on the ad. These donations are tax deductible.
Here is a pdf of the ad:
http://www.nuuf.org/ad_for_transcript.pdf

You can reach Susan at susan-brassfield@ou.edu.

HAVE A HEART
Tramps' Have-A-Heart Benefit, Sunday, February 22nd at 6:30 PM at Tramps. This is Tramps one big annual benefit show and auction, raising money for Loaves and Fishes program to provide hot meals for people living with HIV. This benefit has gone on for almost 20 years, and was the pet project of the late Larry Crosby, longtime owner of the club. In the past, and this year as well, we have incredible auction items donated, including furniture, trips, etc., some of which goes at very bargain prices. The customers and staff at Tramps go all out for this event, and if anyone wants to make a tax-deductible donation to be auctioned off, they can contact me via e-mail -
itzfloyd@aol.com.
Thanks,
Floyd Martin
Publicity Director,
Have-A-Heart, 2004

BITCH AND ANIMAL AT PARTNERS
Sat, Apr 10, 7PM
$12 in advance, $15 at door
Tickets now on sale at: 206-5425, Velvet Monkey, Randy's M&M,
www.okclive.com
Bitch and Animal (Righteous Babe Records) are at it again, after touring with their favorite little folk singer, Ani DiFranco.... they are currently on tour and will be in your neighborhood soon!
www.bitchandanimal.com
www.myshkinsrubywarblers.com
www.cartersampson.com

OKC MAYOR ELECTION FEB 24
The Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus sent a survey to the candidates running for Mayor of Oklahoma City. Jim Tolbert chose NOT TO RESPOND to the survey. The only candidate who responded out of the four candidates was Marcus Hayes. Tolbert also canceled a scheduled appearance at Wednesday's Stonewall Democrats meeting.

HOMOSEXUALITY & SCRIPTURE CONFERENCE
A conference on "Homosexuality & Scripture" will be offered in Oklahoma City by six churches which teach that lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender persons are equally as sacred as any other persons. The conference will focus on gender, identity, and sexuality issues, and will be held March 5 and 6 at Church of the Open Arms UCC, 3131 N. Pennsylvania Ave.
Preregistration is encouraged on forms available at all six sponsoring churches or by contacting Church of the Open Arms at 525-9555 or by email at openarmsok@aol.com. Cost per person attending the conference is $15, including lunch to be served at noon. Same-day registration will be possible but may not guarantee workshop choices. Childcare will be provided if requested by March 1.
Friday, March 5, from 7:00 to 8:30 p.m., a panel of religious leaders and scholars will participate in a community-wide discussion on their respective understandings of homosexuality and the scriptures of their tradition. Audience members will have the chance to submit questions to the panelists. After the discussion there will be time for fellowship and socializing.
Saturday, March 6, coffee will be served at 8:45 a.m. before workshops begin on ten different topics, and hosted by religious leaders, scholars and others. All ten workshops will be offered three times, at 9:00 a.m., at 10:30 a.m., and again at 1:00 p.m. The conference will end with a worship service from 2:30 to 3:00 p.m.
Titles of the ten workshops are: "Marriage, What is the Biblical Model?" "Sexuality in the Hebrew Scriptures;" "Coming Out Young;" "Lesbians: Identity and Relationship Issues;" "Gay Men: Identity and Relationship Issues;" "Gender Queer - People Who Don't Fit;" "Sexism and Homophobia;" "Jesus: Humanity and Divinity:" "Bisexuality;" and "Clobber Passages: What does the New Testament Say about Homosexuality?" Early registrations will receive priority in workshop selection.
The six sponsoring churches where registration materials are available include Cathedral of Hope-OKC, Church of the Open Arms UCC, Epworth United Methodist Church, First Unitarian Church, Mayflower Congregational Church, St. Andrews Presbyterian Church, and Clegg Memorial United Methodist Church.
MORE INFORMATION
Rev. Kathy McCallie,
Church of the Open Arms UCC,
525-9555
openarmsok@aol.com

JUDICIARY COMMITTEE APPROVES ANTI-GLBT RESOLUTION
The following is a press release from OFEC:
Oklahoma Freedom and Equality Coalition response to Judiciary Committee vote on HR 1028
(On Monday, February 9,) the Judiciary Committee of the Oklahoma State House voted to pass out of committee House Resolution 1028 authored by Rebecca Hamilton, D-Oklahoma City. This resolution urges Congress to consider the Federal Marriage Amendment and states that Oklahoma believes that marriage is between one man and one woman.
Many bills and resolutions were introduced this year in the Oklahoma Legislature that condemn Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered persons. This legislation would deny any and all basic human rights to these persons. While this resolution does not contain the hateful language of House Resolution 1027 authored by Thad Balkman, R-Norman, and Lance Cargill, R-Harrah, it is equally objectionable because it supports discrimination. The purpose of these bills and resolutions is to tell gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered persons that they are not welcome in Oklahoma.
Such a view hurts Oklahoma's economic development. Oklahoma competes against Indiana for new businesses. The Indiana Legislature has already decided not to hear "anti-gay" legislation. Legislators, who support tort reform and worker's compensation reform to promote business in Oklahoma, defy logic by supporting the Cargill/Balkman resolution.
The Oklahoma Freedom and Equality Coalition (OFEC) represents individuals and organizations, which believe that everyone has the right to social and economic security. Two persons who love one another and are committed to their relationship should be permitted to receive the same rights and responsibilities without discrimination.
Many well-intentioned Oklahomans do not understand that two persons who have lived together for 40 years in a domestic relationship may be denied access to each other if one of them is in the hospital. Currently in Oklahoma a "parent" can walk away from a child after ten years without any liability for child support, leaving that child with the birth mother or adoptive parent. Currently in the United States, a same gender surviving partner will not receive survivor's benefits under Social Security, government employee retirement programs and almost all pension plans. This has devastating financial impact on the partner who gave up employment to care for the couple's home.
OFEC will continue to educate Oklahomans about the lack of fairness experienced everyday by many of their fellow taxpayers. OFEC will use all of its resources to oppose this resolution, as well as other bills and resolutions introduced which would deny the possibility of fairness.

OFEC TRACKS ANTI-GLBT BILLS
A list of the anti-GLBT bills that have been introduced in this session of the Oklahoma legislature is now online at the website of the Oklahoma Freedom and Equality Coalition.
www.ofec.org/ActionAlerts.htm

GROWING & LEARNING WITH SISSY NEWEST WEBISODE
Growing and Learning with Sissy's Latest Webisode - Just in time for Valentine's Day, Sissy, played by David Mays, takes a dare and meets his first love but how long will it last? Find out in the webisode titled, Truth or Dare Pt.1: Dare. Aaron Bennett, a Theatre student from Stillwater's Oklahoma State University, plays Sissy's First Love.
http://www.tarsplace.com/Webisode_Six.htm

MAY MUSIC FEST
RAIN Oklahoma and CarePoint present, once again, the May Music Fest, Saturday, May 8 at the Farmer's Market. Performers will include Pinkie & the Snakeshakers, Wendy Woo and Shelly Phelps. More info is at
www.rainoklahoma.org and www.care-point.org.

THANKS FOR VISITING!

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August 27, 2003
Dear Mr. Quigley,
Please know that this district does not discriminate against any student. That includes gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered students.
Sincerely,
Bob Moore, Superintendent,
Oklahoma City
Public Schools

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