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OKC MAYOR ELECTION TODAY
The candidates for mayor of Oklahoma City in the election on Tueday are Mick Cornett, Marcus Hayes, Frosty Peak and Jim Tolbert. The
Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus sent a survey to the candidates running for Mayor of Oklahoma City. The only candidate who responded out of the four was Marcus Hayes. His score indicates that his responses were very GLBT-supportive. Hard News Online sent a questionnaire to the candidates, to which none chose to reply.
None of the candidates have spoken to any GLBT groups, although Hayes did attend the OFEC town hall meeting at the Church of the Open Arms on Jan 15th. Tolbert was scheduled to speak at this month's Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats meeting, but canceled. An effort was made to get him to come to the State of Our Community event as well. That effort did not succeed. There was, however, a fundraiser for Tolbert held last week with the involvement of a number of GLBT activists, including Terry Gatewood and Jim Roth.
According to OGLPC's Voter Guide for the election, many openly-Gay people are working in Tolbert's campaign. The Guide also notes that Cornett and Peak have anti-GLBT records, opposing the Gay Pride banners and a city Human Rights Commission. Cornett is also known for objecting to an endorsement from the Cimarron Alliance Group when he ran for city council.

SMITH, BATCHELDER ENDORSE TOLBERT
The following is not to be taken as an endorsement by GayOKC.com. - Rob Abiera
The following is an email from Nathaniel Batchelder:

Friends, Jim Tolbert has served on the "Honorary Board" of the Central Oklahoma Human Rights Alliance (COHRA) from day one, and never flinched at the strong positions COHRA took on universal human and civil rights.
The following recommendation is from Keith Smith, "ditto'ed" by Lynn Green, and .....
Terry Gatewood
J.B. Schuelein
Emily Shurley (the Episcopal woman who visited Open Arms several times.)
IT WILL BE CLOSE !!! DO VOTE TUESDAY !!!

Friends -- I am writing a short note, a reminder in some cases, to encourage your vote for JIM TOLBERT for Mayor on Tuesday of next week, Feb. 24.
In my view, Jim is not only the best candidate in the race, the most qualified, experienced and capable, he is truly exceptional. His decades of service to the city -- in the arts, business, health care, transportation, education, economic development -- put him head and shoulders above any of the other candidates. If we do not elect him mayor, we will have missed an opportunity to choose a leader of whom we can all be proud. This vote is critical to real and continued progress in the city.
Please remember to vote on Tuesday. IT IS NOT AT ALL CERTAIN THAT JIM WILL WIN. The large number of candidates in the race may force a run-off. In addition, the state GOP has embraced Jim's chief opponent, Mick Cornett, and is spending a lot of their money and resources attacking Jim. This attack has to be taken seriously.
Also, please make a concerted effort to "spread the word," either through your own email lists, over the "water cooler," by making phone calls, by talking to your neighbors, even by taking a neighbor or two to vote with you.
If you want to help further -- with a financial contribution or volunteering -- or simply have questions, feel free to call me at 525-9949, or the Tolbert campaign headquarters 843-VOTE (843-8683).
Thanks for your consideration. Vote Tuesday.
Thanks,
Keith

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A LETTER FROM PAULA SOPHIA
Karen Weldin of Soulforce in Oklahoma has forwarded to me a letter addressed "Dear Community" from Paula Sophia. In this letter, Paula writes of some recent experiences in her dealings with her employer, the Oklahoma City Police Department.
www.gayokc.com/sophia022204.htm

OKLAHOMA DEMOCRATS SELECT OPENLY-GLBT DELEGATES TO NATIONAL CONVENTION
[Oklahoma City, Feb 21] At today's Oklahoma State Democratic Party Delegate Selection Convention held in Oklahoma City, two out-and-proud citizens were elected by their peers to Oklahoma's State Delegation for the National Democratic Convention to be held in Boston, MA, in late July.
Rachel Morse was elected from the Kerry Campaign. Ms Morse is a member of Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, board member of the National Stonewall Democrats, and vice-president of programs for Young Democrats of America.
Jim Roth, Oklahoma County Commissioner, District 1, was elected from the Clark Campaign. Mr. Roth was the first openly gay man elected in Oklahoma to a prominent office. He was formerly attorney with the Oklahoma County Clerk's office before his election as commissioner.
This writer believes these two outstanding examples of Oklahoma Democrats are the second and third openly affirming gay/lesbian people elected to Oklahoma's convention delegation, following the glass-ceiling breaking precedent of Keith Smith, co-chair of Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, the first openly gay man elected to the delegation in 2000.
Slowly, but surely and determinedly, open gays and lesbians are taking their deserved place in local, state, and national politics and decision making. Our rights as citizens of the USA are coming to parity with the responsibilities we already shoulder.
Taxpaying, responsible gay/lesbian citizens will no longer take a back seat or a closed door as an acceptable answer to our continued question of where is our equality.
Whether it be elected office, same-sex marriage, or equal protection under the law, the gay/lesbian equality movement is rolling and will not stop
until it reaches the finish line.
James Nimmo, treasurer
Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats
www.oklahomastonewall.org

MCCRAY FUNDRAISER
Eva Jo Sparks and Keith Smith will be hosting a fundraiser for our friend and candidate for Oklahoma House District 58, Becky McCray. Becky is from Alva and will be running to replace retiring Republican Representative Elmer Maddux. The event will be on Wednesday February 25th at the home of Eva Jo Sparks at 2308 N W 57th in Oklahoma City, from 6 to 8pm, and I am hoping you will be a $100, $250, or a $500 sponsor. Regular tickets are $50. This race could become very pivotal in this year's elections where the Republicans think they will take control of the House. Please help me prevent that from happening and help us elect another Woman Democrat to the House.
Please email or call me immediately to tell me you will be a sponsor......thanks, Keith.

Keith Smith
5536 N. Villa
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, 73112
home 405-840-2219
office 405-488-1462
cell 405-760-6801
fax 405-424-7410
email:
Keith@Oklahomalobbyist.com
web site:
www.Oklahomalobbyist.com

HOUSE PASSES ANTI-GLBT RESOLUTION
According to
a report at NewsOK.com, the Oklahoma House of Representatives passed House Resolution 1028, authored by Rebecca Hamilton, D-Oklahoma City. The resolution calls on Congress to create committees to study the proposed Federal Marriage Amendment and states that Oklahomans believe that marriage is between one man and one woman. The report quotes representative Hamilton as saying, "We are faced with people who are trying to change the law by judicial fiat."
The Marriage Equality Rally, organized by Jim Craig of the Interfaith Diversity and Equality Association - the same group responsible for the protest of the "Love Won Out" Conference last year - was attended by upwards of 200 people at the noon hour Tuesday, across the street from the State Capitol building.  Representatives of several GLBT & GLBT supportive groups were there.
Across the street on the south steps of the State Capitol, state representatives Thad Balkman and Lance Cargill - claiming that "radical activists and liberal judges" are trying to redefine marriage - were rallying to "protect traditional marriage". Approximately 300 "pro-family" supporters from various Religious Right groups were estimated to be in attendance.

THE STATE OF OUR COMMUNITY 2004
My thanks to Rob Farris at The Gayly Oklahoman for his comprehensive report on the proceedings at The State of Our Community 2004, hosted by GayOKC.com on January 26th. Unfortunately, I was too busy running the event to be able to catch everything that was said by the speakers so I could write a report myself - although I do want to make one correction, and that is that it was Chris Balderas who spoke on behalf of YGLA that night, not Chris Munoz, who was unable to attend.
Events in January always run the risk of being affected by the weather, and that proved true this year. The icy winter wind and threat of snow reduced attendance to about half of what it was last year. Even so, I think it is remarkable that so many of our community's leaders turned out for this event. Among the many remarkable reports of the past year's impact on our community, two speakers stand out in my mind. Joe Quigley's energetic presentation was a marked contrast to the portrait of despair he presented last year. Animated, vibrant and passionate, he acted out many of the situations he has been dealing with at NW Classen High School and the impact of the letter from the Superintendent spelling out the inclusion of GLBT students in the district's non-discrimination policy. Paula Sophia took a national news story that is having world-wide repercussions - the ordination of Gene Robinson as the Episcopal Church's first Gay bishop - and found a way to not just relate it to Oklahoma, but to make it personal, explaining the impact on the Episcopal Church - of which Paula is an ordained minister - so that it was not just something that was happening to Gene Robinson in New Hampshire, it was also something that was happening to Paula Sophia here in Oklahoma City.
My thanks once again to the Cimarron Alliance Foundation, Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus, Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats and GourmetCakes.net for their support!
Click here to read Rob's report

JUDICIARY COMMITTEE APPROVES ANTI-GLBT RESOLUTION
The following is a press release from OFEC:
Oklahoma Freedom and Equality Coalition response to Judiciary Committee vote on HR 1028
(On Monday, February 9,) the Judiciary Committee of the Oklahoma State House voted to pass out of committee House Resolution 1028 authored by Rebecca Hamilton, D-Oklahoma City. This resolution urges Congress to consider the Federal Marriage Amendment and states that Oklahoma believes that marriage is between one man and one woman.
Many bills and resolutions were introduced this year in the Oklahoma Legislature that condemn Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered persons. This legislation would deny any and all basic human rights to these persons. While this resolution does not contain the hateful language of House Resolution 1027 authored by Thad Balkman, R-Norman, and Lance Cargill, R-Harrah, it is equally objectionable because it supports discrimination. The purpose of these bills and resolutions is to tell gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered persons that they are not welcome in Oklahoma.
Such a view hurts Oklahoma's economic development. Oklahoma competes against Indiana for new businesses. The Indiana Legislature has already decided not to hear "anti-gay" legislation. Legislators, who support tort reform and worker's compensation reform to promote business in Oklahoma, defy logic by supporting the Cargill/Balkman resolution.
The Oklahoma Freedom and Equality Coalition (OFEC) represents individuals and organizations, which believe that everyone has the right to social and economic security. Two persons who love one another and are committed to their relationship should be permitted to receive the same rights and responsibilities without discrimination.
Many well-intentioned Oklahomans do not understand that two persons who have lived together for 40 years in a domestic relationship may be denied access to each other if one of them is in the hospital. Currently in Oklahoma a "parent" can walk away from a child after ten years without any liability for child support, leaving that child with the birth mother or adoptive parent. Currently in the United States, a same gender surviving partner will not receive survivor's benefits under Social Security, government employee retirement programs and almost all pension plans. This has devastating financial impact on the partner who gave up employment to care for the couple's home.
OFEC will continue to educate Oklahomans about the lack of fairness experienced everyday by many of their fellow taxpayers. OFEC will use all of its resources to oppose this resolution, as well as other bills and resolutions introduced which would deny the possibility of fairness.

MORE ON THE OKLAHOMA LEGISLATURE FROM KEITH SMITH
Dear Activists:

Marriage Equality Alert
Please contact the following legislators and ask them to not support any anti-gay marriage initiative. In light of the recent scandalous allegations about sexual impropriety by married Republican Legislator and author of anti-gay marriage legislation, Representative Mike O'Neal it appears the legislature lacks the moral authority to be passing any anti gay marriage legislation. This alert targets Republican Leaders and authors of anti-gay marriage legislation. Please help now. When you contact them by email or phone make sure that you give them your name address and phone number.

Representative Todd Hiett
hiettto@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Susan Winchester
winchestersu@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Thad Balkman
balkman@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Kevin Calvey
calveyke@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Lance Cargill
cargillla@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Terry Harrison
harrisonte@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Rebecca Hamilton
hamiltonre@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Mike O'Neal
onealmi@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Purcy Walker
walkerpu@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative John Wright
wrightjo@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Chris Benge
bengech@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Representative Bill Graves
gravesbi@lsb.state.ok.us 405-521-2711
Senator Daisy Lawler
lawler@lsb.state.ok.us 405-524-0126
Senator James Williamson
williamson@lsb.state.ok.us 405-524-0126

ANDREA RATKOVIC'S MALLORCA JOURNAL
Norman-based out lesbian athlete Andrea Ratkovic was recently at a training camp in Spain preparing to try out for the Olympic cycling team and offered to write about her experience for GayOKC.com.
www.gayokc.com/ratkovicjournal.htm

OFEC TRACKS ANTI-GLBT BILLS
A list of the anti-GLBT bills that have been introduced in this session of the Oklahoma legislature is now online at the website of the Oklahoma Freedom and Equality Coalition.
www.ofec.org/ActionAlerts.htm

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August 27, 2003
Dear Mr. Quigley,
Please know that this district does not discriminate against any student. That includes gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered students.
Sincerely,
Bob Moore, Superintendent,
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